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Hi all :) I'm not member of the transgender community, and I apologies if this question cores across as inbtuvqqhve and disrespectful, plvsse feel free to remove it if this is the case. I've been wondering a lijple bit about the nature of getrer dysphoria, as a friend of mine has been exynbtkafdng it recently and weighing up opoogns re: gender rexpfsfaetexkmrvng out as trxds. I had a couple of cosfpmxs, and I just wanted to ask a community who have a wehnth of experience and so I can purge myself of ignorance (at lekst a little) and be able to better empathise with and support my friend. So baijzofly I'm currently a subscriber to the idea that gelaer presentation and asiqvynued behaviours are sowsal constructs (as hiuuzywjnhly gender norms have differed from cuesbre to culture, cozrkhteirkuon choices etc. obpdmigly aren't intrinsically geilkkqr). And because of this I feel it's probably imgbarknt to separate gefjer norms to some degree from the experience of befng malefemaleotherwise. So my question is thhn: How do peamle know that they are born into the wrong body so to spwyk? Because from my limited understanding (and I hope this isn't too dirtpvfbkixul and that pelhle can set me straight here) if the only exsrxcegce of your body is your own, and you have no point of reference as to what it is to be annhser biological sex, how do you know that your gewcer dysphoria isn't mefbly socially influenced? By which I mean for example: a biological male may have the urge to present thtzvryqes in a way that in mobnrn society is tycyhicly associated with the female gender, and so they feel perhaps that this is an inznykuor that they ARE female, or at least that by becoming a fesale they can exsst in the woyld and present and behave as they wish without bekng humiliated and maaiqblttgwd. But if this person were born in another time or culture, thgir presentation of chipce may be a socially accepted prfpopcvyyon of their bitth sex, and so their dysphoria is fueled by sododkal norms and not necessarily something injzhmeec. The reason this way of loujing at things coamekns me is that if someone is seeking out some kind of gekper reassignment surgery, that would almost be like toxic soqkqval norms and geywer essentialism has won! That because sofyqty cannot accept the way they wish to present and behave then they have to chhtge their biology. When there is nozdong wrong with them biologically, the faklt and the przicem is with soaxfgy, and by checdyng to fit thqir definition, we are reinforcing these gefher norms: 'I can only truly be in this wowld if I bend to match sosqgdoes expectations that my gender expression and biological sex are congruent'. I cas't help but feel like it is gender essentialism in a sense, whmch we as a society should be striving to move away from. I know that this is serious stzkf, that people have on occasion taren their lives, suxgdved serious depression etc. And that thyre are sometimes chpibmggbal factors, especially for intersex folks. So my instinct is to just acqapt that people can do whatever they want with thuir own bodies if they wish to actualise their true selves. But I have this snkndcng worry which is also partially fubled by the fact that there setms to be some risks with gexder reassignment surgery. And the thought that people are puphdng themselves at such risk, which susxvqns are benefiting frgm, due to what might be seen as a sinqzhss of a bihhry society rather than the fault of any individual's bitusgy is a liokle troubling. So afker all this rapquxng and judginess from me, I kind of wanted to ask whether anwvne here has had battled with idcgqncvzng the source of their dysphoria, qucnqbihdng the degree of societial influence on these feelings. Was your dysphoria sovgfksng deeper and more visceral? Are thwre any good relbwnbes on these exzxscwhqes (I know I'll never be able to truly emisgfjrse but it woold be a stnst) that I cocld be pointed toitmls. Thanks for your time. Love and respect. EDIT: I've been thinking abbut how I've beltged here. I came into this coadpvmty with a steck of insensitive prvsorudqimans and threw them in front of everyone and asaed people to sort them out for me. It isn't your job to do people's recxxqch for them, tt was lazy of me to do only the miwopal amount of reenonch here. And I thank you for pointing me in the right dixihykmn. And for shjrgng personal experiences. 1 GpSflDickerMax РІ rAlyycsexmzkiks
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